Your opinions matter!
Hi,
In life, we face with a lot of situations(noticed that i did not say problems). Situations can be positively or negatively viewed. I will discuss with an example.
Let say, on a one fine day, You saw this bully, who always disturb you and make things difficult for you, walking down the street. Suddenly, he met an accident. You rushed over and see. He was covered with blood on the ground. How do you feel? Do you feel happy that the bully got his "punishment"? Or would you feel sad and pity him(although you still hate him)? Or would you feel that instantly, he should be forgiven on all his bad things done on you?
The above example continues. That bully has been diagnoised to be under a condition, which he don't remember the past. He is behaving like a new person and he is doing good things, instead of roaming around and making troubles. Now, would you like to be friends with him? Or do you still dislike him? Or still keep a distance, although you don't have any grudges anymore?
Remember that situations can change how a person thinks or response to somethings. From the above example, we can see that the bully was a guy, which will not be liked. After the accident, things might change. Opinions might change too. So keep an open mind and accept things positively. Internally in that bully's mind and heart, he might not be that bad at all...
No matter what that was, you can tell your experiences about a person to another person close to you. This can directly or indirectly affect his opinion or thinkings related to the person, whom you are referring to. Now think, would you like to give positive comments or negative feedbacks about a person, whom you don't like, or might like after certain situation occurred? Think about it and let me know your comments. As you know, your comments matter to the ones, whom you talk to and to us.
We would like to hear from you. Please comments on this blog or send a email to me: help@selfmotivationtools.com. Let us all hear your opinions. Remember that whatever you say or do can change the situations around you :) Be positive.
Please navigate to www.selfmotivationtools.com for more tools to help you think positively!
In life, we face with a lot of situations(noticed that i did not say problems). Situations can be positively or negatively viewed. I will discuss with an example.
Let say, on a one fine day, You saw this bully, who always disturb you and make things difficult for you, walking down the street. Suddenly, he met an accident. You rushed over and see. He was covered with blood on the ground. How do you feel? Do you feel happy that the bully got his "punishment"? Or would you feel sad and pity him(although you still hate him)? Or would you feel that instantly, he should be forgiven on all his bad things done on you?
The above example continues. That bully has been diagnoised to be under a condition, which he don't remember the past. He is behaving like a new person and he is doing good things, instead of roaming around and making troubles. Now, would you like to be friends with him? Or do you still dislike him? Or still keep a distance, although you don't have any grudges anymore?
Remember that situations can change how a person thinks or response to somethings. From the above example, we can see that the bully was a guy, which will not be liked. After the accident, things might change. Opinions might change too. So keep an open mind and accept things positively. Internally in that bully's mind and heart, he might not be that bad at all...
No matter what that was, you can tell your experiences about a person to another person close to you. This can directly or indirectly affect his opinion or thinkings related to the person, whom you are referring to. Now think, would you like to give positive comments or negative feedbacks about a person, whom you don't like, or might like after certain situation occurred? Think about it and let me know your comments. As you know, your comments matter to the ones, whom you talk to and to us.
We would like to hear from you. Please comments on this blog or send a email to me: help@selfmotivationtools.com. Let us all hear your opinions. Remember that whatever you say or do can change the situations around you :) Be positive.
Please navigate to www.selfmotivationtools.com for more tools to help you think positively!
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